Relationship Coaching for Couples
too many couples are stuck in what i call a c- relationship/marriage. yes…that’s a relationship that is fine. it used to be great! it used to be full of laughter, great conversation, curiosity and enthusiasm.
but now it just feels more like stale bread. it’s still edible and survivable, but not so tasty. ok, bad analogy. but you get the point.
when couples move beyond the novelty of their early days, of course the excitement will dissipate some. but great relationships continuously reinvent themselves. they work lighter (not harder) at staying connected, arguing more respectfully, making up quicker, and maintaining an innocent perspective of one another.
a relationship coach works closely with you individually or as a couples to take stock of your relationship. this includes looking more closely at what’s keeping you together, what doesn’t need to change and what’s getting in the way of your closeness. additionally, we look at your relationship patterns and how we can spot triggers and stop unnecessary arguments from continuing to recycle.
but beyond all the psychological understanding is a simple desire to help you create a relationship that is more satisfying.
great relationships love lighter, which means they are meant to create a deeper closeness over time, not greater distance. they are meant to give you and your partner an incredible confidence that your conflict will have some benefit to your relationship and that you will restore that side of your closeness that you once held sacredly and without much effort.
as a licensed marriage and family therapist and ct online relationship coach, i will provide you with a new approach to restoring the amazingness in your relationship. i will add a dash of humor to our conversations so that you realize it is not all serious business.
relationship coaching for couples is exciting because it is an incredible opportunity for you to finally connect in a way that feels deeper, lighter and more confident in your love than ever before.
we will not be all cerebral and rules based, but instead i will mix in some light hearted engagment along with an intentional process of taking important steps in helping you restore your beautiful bond.
